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How To Explore New Things With A Partner

Nothing kills relationships faster than boredom.

It’s all too easy to fall into routines with your man. Just like with work, study and going to the gym or even eating, sexual activity is essential to a healthy relationship but it can turn into routine and boring. If this happens, you and your lover will seek out other excitement.

Don’t allow this to happen to your relationship!

Even though the Bad Girls Bible will teach you everything you need to know to keep things hot, in the meantime these 14 sex tips will give you a great way to avoid boredom in your relationship & sex life. Here’s the list:

1. Learn about the latest Sex Positions

It’s the simplest yet one of the most effective ways of keeping things exciting. This is why I’ve made the Sex Positions section of the Bad Girls Bible. It is filled with pictures and explanations of more than 100 different sexual positions.

If you’re looking to give your male partner back-arching, toe-curling in screams of orgasms that keep him hooked on you, then look for them in my confidential and private newsletter. Learn about the five unsafe and “dumb” sexual blunders which turn him off as well as how to avoid them.

If you’ve never tried taking the lead in bed before, you may feel somewhat nervous when you try this. But , your man will be thrilled by the experience. Trust me.

You’ll find it best to play around with the easier to perform positions that don’t require lots of flexibility and are easy for you to move to.

2. Explore his fantasies (And You Too!)

Everybody has fantasies about sexuality. Everyone!

The problem with a lot of people is that they think their fantasies are weird or a little out of the ordinary. They might not want to reveal their fantasies because of fear or potential embarrassment or their partner thinking they’re bizarre.

It is likely that your friend will be thinking the same that you are!

So there might be certain dreams or ideas make you smile but you will never encounter these things in real life.

3. Dominating, Exploring Your Sensitive Side

Most relationships have one partner that is slightly more dominant in bed while the other one is more submissive.

But not in the traditional sense of the word. However, it is true that one partner is more willing to explore new options and change positions or even engage the other in sexual activity.

An excellent way to spice things up is to switch up your character next time you’re at home with your guy.

Therefore, if he’s normally the one who would like to move around Try to beat him up to the punch and switch positions instead. (make sure you try some new sex positions too!)
Or maybe he usually initiates sexual relations. Why not try being the person who is the aggressor this time?
You might also start foreplay. Hold him off until he does.

4. Pinch His Ass

This is perhaps the most absurd sexually explicit tip you’ll ever receive from me. But it’s really effective.

The next time you’re leaving your partner and you’re leaning into him to kiss him, quickly grab his bum. You can pinch it, smack it or just grab it with your hand.

It should be quick But don’t make any comments about it.

Do not explain, if he asks why you took the action.

Smile at him.

If you’re a man It can be a bit unclear, but it’s an obvious sign that you like him and may be a bit naughty.

Note: Do not use this each day or even during the week. Use it only once per month to keep things interesting and flirty.

5. Use Sex Toys

Sexy toys are great. Especially if you want to make things more exciting. There is literally a sex toy for every situation. For him, for her. For his penis, for your penis, for your.

Playing with sex toys while foreplaying is an excellent way to get the other person hot and annoyed before having sex. They can also be great as an alternative to sex or during sexual activities as well.

However, as I have advised in all the advice you’ve read, if you only depend on sex toys, the routine will get boring and routine.
An effective way to see the sex toys is to think of them as a flavor but not the main course.

In the next few weeks, I’ll be adding a section on which sex toys work best and the best way you can make use of them.

You can buy male sex toys over at our website.

6. Take a shower with Him!

This easy sex trick is like pinching your ass. It must be used sparingly in order to work.

The next time your man is taking a shower, follow him in one minute later. Then, you’ll have a choice of what to do:

It’s all you have to do but just wash him. It’s shockingly sensual!
You can offer him a blow-up. Put a towel on your knees in case you do this, otherwise your knees can get very painful.
It’s possible to have sex. Although, you’ll find that shampoo and water can quickly dry out your natural lubrication

7. Build anticipation

One reason why sex can be boring and boring is that there is no build up, no anticipation and no tension prior to having sexual encounters with your partner. It’s just a routine (for most couples it’s usually typically every day or evening).

In order to break this monotony, consider building anticipation on something he’s anticipating. If you’re on vacation with your buddies, message your guy and tell him the extent to which you’re missing him (and how cute you are).

Inform him of what you plan to do for him when you get back. In detail…

It doesn’t apply only those who are in vacation. It is possible to test it after you leave for school or work.

Caution: As with other sex-related tips, make sure to only use it sparingly otherwise it can get boring quite quickly.

8. Dressing up for Him

Dressing for your man is a straightforward’sex tip. In a way , it’s connected to the previous sex-related tip, “Building Anticipation’.

When I talk about “Dressing up for Him”, I don’t neccessarily mean dressing up in costume or wearing super-slutty clothing.

In other words, I am talking about wearing something provocative. It should make him look twice. It should remind him of why he enjoys you so deeply.

It could be a dress that is shorter than normal, a dress that’s cut at a low cut, or any item that accentuates your good points.

9. Watch Porn Together

Let me know! I understand completely if hate pornography and want to avoid this tip completely.

There’s a common belief that porn is a favorite of males and females, but women do not like it. But this isn’t quite the truth.

I think that this is a more precise method of describing the stereotype:

Many women are not fond of ‘conventional’ pornography.

What’s normal pornography? Pornography that’s offensive to women, in which men treat the women like dirt and put a smudge on their faces at the end.

However, if you search for it, you will find female focused pornography that’s not at all like this.

If you’re not sold about the concept of watching porn with your guy do not feel that you have to.

10. Request Directions

Inquiring for directions when need to get sexually satisfied with your lover, regardless of whether you are giving him a blowjob or a handjob or having sex is a really intelligent move if you’re hoping to make rapid progress.

However, don’t directly ask him questions.

Don’t say:
Does that sound okay?
I’m not quite sure what I’m doing However, I hope you like the idea.

The best way to ask questions’ or ‘give directions’ is give the recipient a choice or make a suggestive statement.

Are you a man who does handjobs or a blowjob guy?

I’m betting you’re the kind of person who likes his balls played around with…
You appear to be the kind of person who loves being on top and at the top of his game…
I’m sure you’re a fan of doggystyle sexual sex…

For some, this can be very easy, whereas others find it a little more difficult. But once you do ‘ask for directions’, it’s likely that you’ll discover what your man enjoys the most. And he’ll be more likely to do the same!

11. Talk Dirty

The act of talking dirty to your boyfriend can be very powerful. That’s why there is an entire chapter of The Bad Girls Bible devoted to talking dirty and the engaging dirty-talking instructional video I designed to help you get up to speed, fast. It’s available here.

Instead of rehashing the same information in the talk dirty section, you should actually go through it for yourself.

If you’re not aware about the benefits of speaking dirty, many women like it as it is a way to keep your man constantly turned towards you and thinking of you when you are not present.